Have you ever had someone say, “Oh, all dogs love me!” as they move in to pet your chihuahua? These little dogs are undeniably cute, and they tend to attract a lot of attention. While the enthusiasm might be well-meaning, it’s important to remember that not all dogs enjoy being approached by strangers.

Here’s what you need to know to help your chihuahua feel safe and comfortable:

Do Dogs Like Being Petted by Strangers?

Not always. Some dogs love attention from new people, but many—especially small breeds like chihuahuas—can find it overwhelming. Chihuahuas naturally draw a crowd because of their adorable size and big personalities, but having people approach them, loom over them, or try to pet them can create anxiety.

Often, owners and well-meaning people overlook the concept of consent-based touch. This is more than just putting your hand down for the dog to sniff and assuming, because the dog doesn’t bite or curl their lip, that it’s OK to move in and touch them—it’s about observing whether your dog is actively showing interest in interacting. Are they putting their paws on the person, nudging them, or clearly moving toward them? If it’s anything less—if your dog is standing still, avoiding eye contact, or making no move toward the person—then take it as a “no, don’t touch.”

Giving Your Chihuahua a Treat.

You can extend this to the person luring them into an interaction with food. That still isn’t OK. Your dog may be super foodie and want the food, but not want the interaction. This creates conflict of emotion and takes away the opportunity for the dog to have some autonomy over their situation.

Should You Let People Pick Up Your Dog?

No! Being picked up removes a dog’s sense of control and can make them feel trapped, especially when it’s done by someone they don’t know. For chihuahuas, who are already small and often anxious in new situations, being scooped up by a stranger can be particularly stressful.

Is It Okay to Enter Your Dog’s Space?

Dogs have personal boundaries, just like people. Coming too close, leaning over them, or reaching in to pet your chihuahua can feel invasive. For your chi, this can be especially daunting, as the world is already full of things much bigger than they are.

Teach people to let your dog set the pace. A good rule of thumb: if your dog isn’t coming to them, it’s best to give them space.

Be Your Dog’s Advocate

If you have listened to me teach in Chihuahua School you will hear me talk about ‘putting on your big pants’. What I mean by this is being prepared to say ‘no’ on your dog’s behalf. It can be uncomfortable and almost seem rude, but advocating for your chihuahua means being prepared to control the situation on their behalf. For example:

If someone insists “all dogs love me,” or “I don’t mind if I get bitten”, then they move in for contact but your dog looks uncomfortable, say, “They’re not keen on strangers, so let’s give them space.”

If someone tries to pick them up, kindly but firmly explain, “They’re happiest with all four paws on the ground.” The idea of someone trying to pick up someone elses dog seems unfathomable, but it does happen.

Advocating also means not putting your dog into situations they aren’t comfortable with—even if someone is persistent. Your chihuahua’s comfort and well-being come first.

To avoid people lunging to pet your chihuahua teach them middle, this is your dog stands between you legs on cue. (like the photo) No one should be stooping down when your dog is situated here. If they do, you may have a different problem on your hands. 😱

In Summary

Chihuahuas are undeniably adorable, which makes them magnets for attention. But just because people want to pet or pick up your dog doesn’t mean it’s the right thing for your dog. The next time someone approaches, remember: it’s okay to say no. Look for active signs of interest, respect your dog’s boundaries, and set limits when necessary.

You know your dog best, so trust your instincts—and don’t hesitate to advocate for them.